The Ethics of AR/VR for Grief Recovery: Promise, Perils, and Ethical Considerations
- Mary
- Jan 27
- 3 min read
Updated: Feb 7
Augmented Reality (AR) and Virtual Reality (VR) technologies are rapidly evolving, offering innovative approaches to various fields, including mental health. In the realm of grief support, these technologies present both significant promise and a unique set of ethical challenges. While AR/VR can potentially offer new avenues for emotional processing, healing, and social connection for grieving individuals, careful consideration must be given to the ethical implications of their use.
One of the primary ethical concerns revolves around authenticity and the potential for misrepresentation. As noted by Bailenson (2018) in his book "Experience on Demand," the creation of hyperrealistic virtual environments can blur the lines between reality and simulation.4 In the context of grief, this can be particularly delicate. The use of AI to generate lifelike avatars of deceased loved ones, while potentially offering comfort, raises concerns about the risk of creating an idealized or inaccurate representation. As Bailenson points out, "The uncanny valley" effect, where near-perfect simulations can evoke unease or even revulsion, poses a significant challenge. If AI-generated avatars appear too close to human-like but not perfectly so, they may inadvertently trigger discomfort and hinder the grieving process.
Furthermore, the potential for maladaptive coping mechanisms must be carefully considered. While VR experiences can provide a safe space for emotional exploration, there is a risk of individuals becoming overly reliant on these virtual interactions, potentially hindering their ability to develop healthy coping mechanisms in the real world. As highlighted in a report by the Lancet, "Continuous exposure to VR will impoverish those aspects of life that determine social development, interpersonal insight, and emotional judgment" (The Lancet, 2024).

Ethical considerations also extend to the development and implementation of these technologies.8 Ensuring equitable access to AR/VR grief support technologies is paramount. As noted by Van Dijk (2006) in his work on the "digital divide," disparities in access to technology and digital literacy can exacerbate existing inequalities. It is crucial to ensure that these innovative technologies are accessible and affordable to all individuals who could benefit from them, regardless of their socioeconomic status or technological literacy.
Moreover, data privacy and security are critical concerns. The development and use of AR/VR technologies in grief support often involve the collection and processing of sensitive personal data, including personal memories, photographs, and even voice recordings of the deceased. Robust data protection measures are essential to safeguard this sensitive information and prevent its misuse.
Finally, the spiritual and cultural implications of these technologies must be carefully considered. As highlighted by Miller (2010) in his work on spirituality and technology, different cultural and religious beliefs hold diverse perspectives on death, the afterlife, and the use of technology in spiritual contexts. It is crucial to be mindful of these diverse perspectives and to ensure that the development and use of AR/VR technologies in grief support are culturally sensitive and respectful of individual beliefs.
While AR/VR technologies offer promising avenues for grief support, they also present a unique set of ethical and moral challenges. Addressing these challenges requires a multidisciplinary approach involving ethicists, technologists, mental health professionals, grieving individuals, and community leaders. By prioritizing ethical considerations, such as authenticity, accessibility, data privacy, and cultural sensitivity, we can ensure that the use of AR/VR in grief support is responsible, beneficial, and ultimately respectful of the human experience.
Note: This post provides a framework for open, respectful discussion. It is important to conduct further research and consult with relevant experts to gain a deeper understanding of the ethical and moral implications of AR/VR in grief support. If you are in immediate danger or in need of help, do not wait. Please call 911 or The 988 Lifeline. Through the 988 Lifeline, you have access to free, quality, one-on-one assistance. Their skilled, judgment-free counselors are here to provide compassionate support. You deserve to feel heard and cared about anytime, anywhere, 24/7/365.
References:
Bailenson, J. N. (2018). Experience on Demand: How VR is changing the way we experience the world. W. W. Norton & Company.
The Lancet. (2024). [Editorial on the ethical considerations of VR in healthcare]. The Lancet.
Van Dijk, J. (2006). The digital divide: Studies on the relationship between ICTs, inequality, and social exclusion. The Information Society, 22(3), 235-240.
Miller, P. R. (2010). Digital spirituality: How technology is transforming religion and everyday life. Routledge.
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